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How Families Pay for Senior Care

Private pay, New York's Medicaid programs (MLTC, ALP, NHTD), VA Aid and Attendance, and long-term care insurance.

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How Long Island families actually pay for care

New York fully expanded Medicaid under the ACA in 2014, but that expansion (income-based, for adults under 65) is a completely separate eligibility pathway from long-term-care Medicaid for seniors, which is asset-tested. Do not conflate the two.

For community-based long-term care, most Nassau and Suffolk seniors on Medicaid go through Managed Long Term Care (MLTC) — mandatory in both counties since 2013 for Medicaid recipients who need more than 120 days of community-based long-term care and can remain safely at home. Within a licensed Adult Home or Enriched Housing Program, the Assisted Living Program (ALP) can cover personal care, nursing, therapy and case management for residents who are medically eligible for a nursing home but stay in a lower-cost, licensed setting instead. For residents who want to stay entirely at home, the Nursing Home Transition and Diversion (NHTD) Medicaid waiver funds home and community-based services for those assessed as needing nursing-home-level care.

For 2026, New York's nursing-facility Medicaid figures include a Community Spouse Resource Allowance of $74,820–$162,660, a Minimum Monthly Maintenance Needs Allowance of $4,066.50/month, and a nursing home resident Personal Needs Allowance of just $50/month — among the lowest in the country. VA Aid and Attendance, a federal (not state) benefit, adds up to $29,093/year for an eligible veteran or $18,697/year for a surviving spouse (rates effective through November 2026).

Questions families ask

What does adult day care cost in New York, and could it help delay a move to assisted living?

CareScout's 2025 Cost of Care Survey puts New York State's Adult Day Health Care median at $144 per day, or about $3,120 per month based on five days a week, $37,440 per year. That's up from $113 per day in the 2024 survey, an increase of roughly 27 percent year over year, the largest percentage jump among CareScout's surveyed New York categories.

Is there a separate published cost for memory care in New York?

No. CareScout's Cost of Care Survey, the primary published cost benchmark used on this site, does not survey or publish a distinct memory care cost category in either its 2024 or 2025 New York State data tables. CareScout only publishes figures for Assisted Living Community, Nursing Home (semi-private and private), Adult Day Health Care, and in-home care categories.

Is there a Long Island-specific senior care cost figure, or only a statewide number?

Only a statewide figure is published. CareScout confirms that its publicly downloadable National and State Data Tables report, the source for the cost figures cited throughout this site, provides state-level and national medians only. CareScout's underlying survey does collect metro-area (MSA-level) data that feeds its separate interactive online cost calculator, but that breakout is not included in the downloadable state tables.

Who is the Long-Term Care Ombudsman for Suffolk County, and what do they do?

Suffolk County's regional Long-Term Care Ombudsman Coordinator is Elizabeth Maxim, sponsored by Family Service League (FSL), 1444 Fifth Ave., Bay Shore, NY 11706, phone 631-470-6755. The Ombudsman Program advocates for residents in Suffolk County skilled nursing homes, assisted living, adult homes, and family-type homes for adults, and operates as part of the statewide Long Term Care Ombudsman Program housed within the NY State Office for the Aging.

Who is the Long-Term Care Ombudsman for Nassau County?

Nassau County's regional Long-Term Care Ombudsman Coordinator is Mary Clare Campion, sponsored by Family and Children's Association, located at 377 Oak Street, Fifth Floor, Garden City, NY 11530, phone 516-466-9718. Like Suffolk's coordinator, this office is part of the statewide Long Term Care Ombudsman Program administered under the NY State Office for the Aging.

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